The world has known a few extraordinary companies and one of them is the brainchild of one of the most admired men in the world – Elon Musk. To have built companies such as Tesla, SpaceX, OpenAI, and Neuralink, he is no doubt one of the greatest entrepreneurs of our time. But what would people think if they knew that he also tried to date and maybe find some romance with one of the most famous women in the entertainment industry in the world today – Amber Heard?
Elon Musk and Amber Heard were first spotted getting close in London in 2017. They even got caught up in a hot embrace during their date night in a bar. The couple then proceeded to the popular Chiltern Firehouse bar for several dates. At the time, Amber was in the process of divorcing Johnny Depp and the two were seen leaving the bar separately. No one had seen or heard anything about it afterwards.
The rumors about the two started flying shortly afterwards. Gossip websites were quick to report on their blossoming relationship. Despite the various reports, neither of the two young stars gave any kind of confirmation. It was only by the end of the year that Amber finally confirmed their connection through her friend, who revealed that they were dating at the time.
Elon Musk and Amber Heard have a lot in common. They both have an impressive education background, have an interest in science and technology, and are deeply engaged in philanthropy. Elon Musk is known for his drive and ambition, while Amber Heard is famous for her beauty and strength. It is these similarities that might have drawn them closer.
But it seems that their relationship didn’t stand the test of time. The news of their break up was reported by multiple sources in early 2018. According to reports, the difficulties in maintaining a long-distance relationship caused them to part ways. Though both of them remain as cordial as before, their budding romance wasn’t meant to be.
Reactions to this unfortunate breakup have been mixed. While some have commended both Elon and Amber for ending things so gracefully, others think that they could have made a good match. According to psychologist Dr. John P. Moore, “The particularity of these celebrity relationships is that they happen in public view and carry a lot more weight than the regular relationship.”
Psycological Effects of Breakup
The process of breaking up can be mentally and emotionally painful for both parties involved. Therapy psychologist Dr. Laura Lesina often works with people going through a break-up and sheds light on the psychological effects it might have. “We look back after the break-up and it is easy to blame ourselves for what has happened. It is important to remember that relationships are a two-way street and it took two people to make it happen and two people to end it.” This is why it is important to remind ourselves not to take everything to heart and focus on self-growth instead.
It is also normal to feel anxious or irritable after a break-up, especially if one has invested a lot of time and energy into the relationship. It is crucial to grapple with these feelings and make sure we take time to properly work through them. Additionally, it is important to discuss our feelings with a trusted friend or a professional who can provide guidance and offer empathy.
Often times, people might resort to some kind of ‘soul-searching’ following a break-up. Dr. Christine Richardson, who specializes in the healing aspect of the break-up, suggests that people should take the opportunity to identify any discrepancies in their behavior that might have contributed to the break-up. She suggests that it is helpful to take some time to explore ourselves and our needs, and to figure out how to effectively deal with them.
Benefits of Breakup
It might be hard to realize it at first, but a break-up could also bring some unexpected benefits. Sometimes, a break-up can give us the opportunity to reassess our goals and start fresh. According to clinical psychologist Dr. Jenn Grannemann, a break-up can be “a chance to start fresh, free from the constraints and stresses of our former relationship.”
A break-up can also lead to positive personal growth. People get to explore options and opportunities that may have been suppressed by the presence of their significant other. After playing the ‘second to the one’, some people might find that they have more freedom to explore who they really are and what they really want.
It is important to remember that a break-up isn’t terminal. It can be a stepping stone to a better, happier and more fulfilling life. Life coach and author, Sophia James believes that “a break-up should ‘divorce’you from your past and bring you more into line with who you really are and who you want to be.” We can use this opportunity to find out and develop our true selves, and to build the life we want. This can bring us a kind of happiness and fulfilment that relationships can rarely provide.
Learning from Breakup
Although breakups are often heartbreaking, they can help us to learn a variety of valuable lessons. This can include learning to forgive, letting go of past grudges and cultivating empathy for others. It can also be a way to improve your communication and conflict resolution skills. If you anticipate facing difficult conversations in the future, take your time to look back and reflect on the mistakes you made in the past and the steps you took to repair the relationship.
It is also important to pay attention to patterns in your relationships and understand why they fail. Paying attention to our mistakes and missteps can help us grow and become more aware of our actions and their consequences. Furthermore, a break-up can also encourage us to become a better version of ourselves. We get to start anew and value ourselves more as we strive to become a better partner for the next person.
Ultimately, a break-up should be seen as an opportunity for growth and self-discovery. People often go through changes after break-ups, and it can help bring out a new version of ourselves. But it is important to remember that healing takes time and effort, and to always be kind to ourselves throughout the process.
Relieving Pain After the Breakup
After a breakup, it can be hard to move on and put the past behind us. The emotions that we go through during such period can cause us physical and psychological pain, but with a few techniques, it’s possible to manage and eventually make peace with the past.
Life strategist and author of “How to Heal a Broken Heart”, Michelle Carvell, suggests the use of journaling or blog writing which can provide an emotional outlet. This can be done by writing down our thoughts and feelings in the form of a story, or even just simply releasing our pain in words.
Reconnecting with ourselves can help us to regain control of our lives. Mental health practitioner, Stephanie Payne, also encourages people to have self-care rituals such as soaking in a nice bubble bath, taking a walk in the park, having a spa day, or maybe even just having a quiet cup of tea. Taking the time to rediscover ourselves by doing the things that make us feel relaxed can be a great way to help us heal after a breakup.
It can also be helpful to visit and catch up with old friends or family members, as it helps to shift our focus on something else and can give us a sense of control. Having a supportive social circle can be an important factor in helping us to cope with breakups, as well as to give us guidance when we find ourselves feeling overwhelmed or lost.
Minimizing Social Media Interaction
It can be tempting to stalk your ex’s social media page following a breakup, however it can be damaging to our emotional state. Instead of checking on their page, it can be a good idea to limit our interaction with social media, especially when we’re going through a vulnerable phase.
Life strategist, Dr. Teresa Stankiewicz, even suggests disabling the push notifications so that you don’t get frequent updates and reminders of them. She adds, “By limiting (our) exposure to triggers, you are helping yourself move through the grief process faster.” It can be helpful to unfollow or mute their accounts for a certain period of time to help us to try and heal.
Remember that moving on from a breakup doesn’t happen overnight, it is a process. It is important that we take the time to nurture ourselves and do what we need to do to take care of our physical and mental health. Working through the pain and reclaiming our sense of self-worth can help us cope and to eventually find our peace and healing.
